So many of us live the life that falls into place for us rather than taking control of our future. It is time to take control and make your life what you really want it to be. That may mean changing how you think, how you act and how you react.
Think of it this way, if you were to wake up three years from now and look back at the life you lived for the last three years, what would have had to happen (realistically) for you to feel really great about the life you had. Once you determine that, the next step is to determine what you need to do to make it happen. Then you are ready to put a plan into place to do what is necessary to get there.