“Where to hold your ground and when to let go in a divorce. And how to get the emotion out and do what’s right during this tough time”.
If you have children, it is important to remember that the other parent will always be their other parent long after the furniture, microwave and other “stuff” is old and thrown away. You may need to interact with each other for many years to come, for birthdays, graduations, weddings, holidays and other events. It is important that you maintain a reasonable rapport with each other so you and the children can build happy memories of their childhood. Remember, you loved each other once and should at least be able to be civil now.